‘Still, in a way we are lucky,’ Björgvin says all of a sudden. ‘Most folk who get this news are compelled to make huge changes in their lifestyle. Their world is turned upside-down and they have the additional challenge of figuring out how to spend the time they have left. We don’t have to do that. We are already in that place, living the life we have always wanted.
Hard to admit but it is true. We have indeed been following our hearts. One after another our dreams have been fulfilled. Still, I find our situation highly unfair and I say so. ‘Unfair?’ His dark eyebrows are raised at me. ‘Would it be fairer if someone else had this brain tumour?’
In On Love, Dragons and Dying, Davidsdottir describes her and Her Beloved‘s journey with the disease they knew would kill him, and her first year as a widow. The book provides an insight both into the world of cancer and the deep grief of one who has loved and lost. But it is in equal measure an ode to love, an incitement to live mindfully and accept that death is a natural part of life.
• Nominated for the Icelandic Women‘s Literature Prize
“Tremendously realistic, beautiful and entirely unsentimental account of what it is like to experience the man you love being diagnosed with a terminal illness … I think that everyone can identify with and find strength in this book – precisely because of this stoicism: This is just one of the cards that life deals you, and you just cope with it as best you can. A remarkable achievement.” KILJAN, NATIONAL TELEVISION
(b.1965) is a distinguished Icelandic author, with background in journalism and ethnology. She has written nine novels, as well as a compelling memoir, critically acclaimed for her thorough research of historical sources, crisp and clear language, a flowing narrative style and fast-paced and intricately woven More about the author